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                     U.S. SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION
                             Washington, D.C. 20549

                                     FORM 4

                  STATEMENT OF CHANGES IN BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP

    Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,
       Section 17(a) of the Public Utility Holding Company Act of 1935 or
               Section 30(f) of the Investment Company Act of 1940

[  ] Check this box if no longer subject of Section 16. Form 4 or Form 5
     obligations may continue. See Instruction 1(b).

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1. Name and Address of Reporting Person

Tobin, Thomas J.
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   (Last)               (First)                 (Middle)

36 Island Creek Rd.
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                                    (Street)

Southampton, NY 11968
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   (City)               (State)                 (Zip)


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2. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol

   Bridge Bancorp, Inc.  BDGE

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3. IRS or Social Security Number of Reporting Person (Voluntary)

   066-36-7932
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4. Statement for Month/Year
   02/02

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5. If Amendment, Date of Original (Month/Year)


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6. Relationship of Reporting Person to Issuer
   (Check all applicable)







   [ X ]   Director                             [   ]   10% Owner
   [ X ]   Officer (give title below)           [   ]   Other (specify below)


       President & CEO
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           Table I -- Non-Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of,
                              or Beneficially Owned
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                                                                                                                6.
                                                                 4.                              5.             Owner-
                                                                 Securities Acquired (A) or      Amount of      ship
                                                    3.           Disposed of (D)                 Securities     Form:     7.
                                                    Transaction  (Instr. 3, 4 and 5)             Beneficially   Direct    Nature of
                                      2.            Code         ------------------------------- Owned at End   (D) or    Indirect
1.                                    Transaction   (Instr. 8)                   (A)             of Month       Indirect  Beneficial
Title of Security                     Date          ------------     Amount      or     Price    (Instr. 3      (I)       Ownership
(Instr. 3)                            (mm/dd/yy)     Code     V                  (D)             and 4)         (Instr.4) (Instr. 4)
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 Common Stock                          02/12/02       P               250 shs.    A     $18.50   19,420           D
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 Common Stock                          02/12/02       P               250 shs.    A     $18.50   17,935           I       Wife
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 Common Stock                                                                                       441           I       Son
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 Common Stock (Restricted*#@)          01/16/02       A         V   1,440 shs.    A     $18.80    2,880           D
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* On January 24, 2000, 1440 shares were awarded under the Equity Incentive Plan,
of which, 480 vested on January 15, 2001 and 480 vesting on each anniversary
thereafter conditioned on continued service at the time of vesting. Of the 480
shares vested on January 15, 2001, 240 shares are included in the directly owned
common stock above,  and an additional 240 shares are included in the
beneficially owned common stock above. Of the 480 shares vested on January 15,
2002, 240 shares are included in the directly owned common stock above, and an
additional 240 shares are included in the beneficially owned common stock above.

# On January 17, 2001, 1440 Shares were awarded under the Equity Incentive Plan,
vesting 480 on January 17, 2002 and 480 on each anniversary thereafter
conditioned on continued service at the time of vesting. Of the 480 shares
vested on January 17, 2002, 240 shares are included in the directly owned common
stock above, and an additional 240 shares are included in the beneficially owned
common stock above.

@ On January 16, 2002, 1440 Shares were awarded under the Equity Incentive Plan,
vesting 480 on January 16, 2003 and 480 on each anniversary thereafter
conditioned on continued service at the time of vesting.



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Reminder: Report on a separate line for each class of securities beneficially
owned directly or indirectly





FORM 4 (continued)

Table    II --  Derivative  Securities  Acquired,  Disposed of, or  Beneficially
         Owned (e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities)

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                                                                                                          9.        10.
                                                                                                          Number    Owner-
                                                                                                          of        ship
                    2.                                                                                    Deriv-    of
                    Conver-                    5.                              7.                         ative     Deriv-   11.
                    sion                       Number of                       Title and Amount           Secur-    ative    Nature
                    of                         Derivative    6.                of Underlying     8.       ities     Secur-   of
                    Exer-             4.       Securities    Date              Securities        Price    Bene-     ity:     In-
                    cise     3.       Trans-   Acquired (A)  Exercisable and   (Instr. 3 and 4)  of       ficially  Direct   direct
                    Price    Trans-   action   or Disposed   Expiration Date   ----------------  Deriv-   Owned     (D) or   Bene-
1.                  of       action   Code     of(D)         (Month/Day/Year)            Amount  ative    at End    In-      ficial
Title of            Deriv-   Date     (Instr.  (Instr. 3,    ----------------            or      Secur-   of        direct   Owner-
Derivative          ative    (Month/  8)       4 and 5)      Date     Expira-            Number  ity      Month     (I)      ship
Security            Secur-   Day/     ------   ------------  Exer-    tion               of      (Instr.  (Instr.   (Instr.  (Instr.
(Instr. 3)          ity      Year)    Code V    (A)   (D)    cisable  Date     Title     Shares  5)       4)        4)       4)
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Stock Options                01/16/02  A    V   4,000        01/16/02 01/16/12 Common Stock 4,000 $18.80   45,000    D
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Explanation of Responses:




/s/ Thomas J. Tobin                                             02/28/02
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      **Signature of Reporting Person                             Date

**   ___ Intentional misstatements or omissions of facts constitute Federal
     Criminal Violations.

     See 18 U.S.C. 1001 and 15 U.S.C. 78ff(a).

Note:  File three copies of this Form, one of which must be manually signed.
       If space provided is insufficient, see Instruction 6 for procedures.