Youโve just been laid off. The laptop is boxed, HR is sending paperworkโand a clock starts ticking. For many startup employees, vested stock options must be exercised within 90 days of termination or they expire. That window can feel impossibly short when cash is tight and taxes are murky. Hereโs a practical, step-by-step playbook to make a smart call under pressure.
1) Get your dates and dollars on one page
Before you stress about taxes or financing, collect the facts:
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Deadline. Find the โpost-termination exerciseโ (PTE) window in your grant agreementโoften 90 days, but some plans extend to 6โ12 months. Remember: even if your company offers a longer window, ISO tax treatment generally ends 3 months after employment ends; exercises after that are typically treated as NSOs for tax purposes (the plan sets the deadline, the tax code sets the ISO treatment rules).
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Whatโs in the money? List each grant lot (grant date, strike price, shares vested). Compare strike vs. todayโs fair value.
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Tax posture. ISOs vs. NSOs, state of residence, and whether AMT might be triggered if you exercise ISOs.
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Your liquidity. How much cash can you deploy without jeopardizing rent, insurance, and job-search runway?
Now map โhow to payโ options to your numbers. For a quick primerโcashless exercise, tender offers, loans, and structured secondary salesโthis overview of paying for startup stock options explains the trade-offs in plain English.
2) Choose a path: exercise, exercise some, or let them lapse
With your spreadsheet set, pick a directionโstarting with your highest-conviction lots:
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Exercise and hold if (a) your strike is far below fair value, (b) you can cover the purchase price and taxes, and (c) you accept concentration risk.
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Sell-to-cover / partial exercise if you want exposure but need to cap cash outlay or tax surprise. Many employees exercise a slice of high-delta lots now and reassess others before the window closes.
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Walk away if the math doesnโt pencil out (thin or falling secondary prices, big tax bill, short cash runway, or company-specific red flags).
If your layoff is fresh and youโre still triaging money and benefits, APโs service explainer What to do if youโre concerned you might be laid off โ or if youโve lost your job covers immediate actions around severance, savings, and job-search momentumโuseful context before you commit cash to equity.
A quick scenario. You hold 6,000 ISOs at a $1 strike. Secondary indications suggest ~$7/share. Exercising all 6,000 costs $6,000 and could trigger AMT. One play: exercise 1,500 shares now (lowest strike, earliest grant), revisit 2,000 more in a week if the liquidity picture holds, and let the rest lapse if financing doesnโt materialize. That staggers both cash and tax risk.
3) How people actually fund exercises (and the traps to avoid)
You have more than one way to finance an exerciseโeach with strings attached:
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Cash on hand. Cheapest, but stress-test your budget for a 3โ6-month job search.
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Sell-to-cover through a tender or secondary. If your company runs periodic tenders or allows approved secondary transfers, you can sell a portion to fund the rest. Watch for transfer restrictions, board consent, and blackout dates.
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Exercise loans (recourse vs. non-recourse). Loans preserve cash but add fees and downside risk. In non-recourse structures, the lender typically keeps the upside if you default; in recourse loans, you are on the hook beyond the shares.
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Company-supported programs. Some late-stage companies offer extensions or financing tied to tender windows. Extensions can be helpful, but often convert ISOs to NSOsโfine for flexibility, but tax treatment changes.
Two guardrails as you evaluate offers: (1) model total cost of capital (interest + fees + any profit-sharing), not just the headline rate; (2) confirm what happens if the companyโs valuation falls or an exit is delayed.
4) The tax tripwires you canโt ignore
You donโt need to become a tax pro, but you do need to know the big levers:
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ISO vs. NSO. ISOs can confer favorable long-term capital-gains treatment if you meet holding periods, but exercising ISOs can trigger the Alternative Minimum Tax (AMT) in the year of exercise. NSOs generally create ordinary income on the spread at exercise, often reported on your W-2. The IRS lays out the core rules in Publication 525.
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The 3-month ISO clock. After most terminations, ISOs must be exercised within three months to retain ISO status; otherwise, the option is still exercisable if your plan allows it, but itโs treated as an NSO for tax purposes. Publication 525 also addresses these timing rules.
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Form 3921. If you exercise ISOs, expect Form 3921 from your employer or transfer agent for your records; it helps compute basis and potential AMT in the year of exercise.
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83(b) is a different animal. The 83(b) election applies when you receive restricted property (like early-exercised, unvested shares) and must be filed within 30 days of the transfer. Itโs not a tool you can pull out after youโve been laid off to change how vested options are taxed. For the mechanics and deadline, see IRS guidance on the 83(b) election.
If you want a plain-language refresher before deciding, APโs primer 3 must-knows about employee stock options walks through option types, selling decisions, and diversification.
5) Protect your runway while you decide
The equity decision doesnโt happen in a vacuumโhealth coverage and cash flow matter:
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COBRA. You typically have 60 days from the date of your COBRA election notice to opt in. That timeline often overlaps with the 90-day exercise window, so decide early how premiums fit your budget. USA.govโs explainer on COBRA coverage outlines your rights and timing.
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Emergency cash. If you need liquidity for living costs, do not hollow out your safety net to chase optional upside. APโs Financial Wellness hub collects timely, non-promotional explainers on building buffers, handling debt, and navigating benefit changes.
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Ask HR two questions. (1) โIs there an upcoming tender or secondary window?โ and (2) โDoes the plan allow a PTE extension?โ Get the answers in writing; align your move with known liquidity events.
6) A bare-bones decision tree (use this to cut through the noise)
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If you can afford to lose the premium (strike ร shares) and the taxes, and you have high conviction in the companyโs path to liquidity โ consider a partial exercise now, then reassess.
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If paying to exercise would jeopardize essentials (rent, insurance, job search), or if transfer restrictions make funding too costly โ skip or scale back.
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If your company is running (or likely to run) a tender/secondary within your window โ weigh a sell-to-cover or a loan tied to that event instead of an all-cash exercise today.
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If your options are out of the money (strike โฅ fair value) โ itโs rational to let them lapse unless you have a specific thesis and a near-term catalyst.
7) Common pitfalls (and how to avoid them)
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Underestimating taxes. Model AMT for ISO exercises and ordinary income for NSOs. A basic calculator plus Publication 525โs rules can prevent April surprises.
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Over-concentration. If you exercise, set a policy to sell into future liquidity eventsโe.g., โsell 25% at the first windowโ to diversify.
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Signing a one-sided financing deal. Read the recourse language twice. Ask for an APR-equivalent and an example payoff table before you agree.
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Waiting until day 89. Brokers, plan administrators, and company sign-offs all take time. Put your order in daysโnot hoursโbefore the deadline.
Bottom line: You donโt have to exercise everythingโor anythingโon principle. Put dates and dollars on one page, choose a funding path that doesnโt break your runway, and let taxes guide (not paralyze) the decision. In a layoff, keeping options open also means protecting your cash and your next move.
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